Hi there. I am Mrs. X. I am 32 years old, have been married
for 10 years, and I am a new swinger. Swinging and the swinging lifestyle were
not ever part of my life plan, in fact, I fought against the idea for 8 long
years…but I am so glad that I finally gave into my husband’s desires and
fantasies and decided to fulfill them. My life is far more interesting than it
used to be and filled with so many great people I would not have otherwise
encountered. You are welcome to follow me on this journey.
I will start with a little background about us. Mr. X and I
met in college in the Midwest. I was brought up in a very religious household,
and Mr. X went to Catholic school from grade school through high school which
ended up making him pretty anti-organized religion. I have to mention that in
spite of my moral values and religious upbringing, I was quite a kissing slut
in college. I have always loved kissing, and I kissed just about anyone who
would let me in college, especially at frat parties when I was drunk. I believe
this is part of what fueled Mr. X’s early interest in me, thinking that maybe
someday I would be interested in swinging. We were sort of friends for two
years before he was to graduate a year ahead of me. I didn’t recognize his
teasing over the years for the flirting that it was. He made his feelings known
to me just as he was about to leave forever. We started dating right after he
graduated in the three months that summer before he was going to move across
the country for grad school. We did not want to say goodbye when fall came, and
we were engaged a month later. Just over a year after we started dating, we
were married. It took another two years for Mr. X to reveal his deepest,
darkest fantasies to me.
In 2005, we were separated for three months for work, and as his time
away came to an end, we decided to plan a vacation upon his return. I told him
that because he had been working so hard during his time away, he deserved to
pick our destination. The response from Mr. X was something I neither expected
nor understood much about at the time. He framed the resort as
“clothing-optional”. I was quite sheltered my whole life. The extent of
conversation between Mr. X and me about swinging was limited at the time primarily
to him talking about wanting to have sex with my best friend and me with her
husband. We already believed that my friend’s husband (who I had also been good
friends with for years) wanted to sleep with me because the two of them had
invited me to join them in bed for a threesome recently. I declined. Anyway,
back to my story about vacation…I didn’t really know what an “adult” resort was
or what “clothing-optional” really meant. However, I had told him he could pick,
so we were off to Hedonism III (which no longer exists) in Jamaica.
On our Jamaican vacation, I had quite a shocking and
eye-opening experience. We were hit on from the second we got in the resort
shuttle at the airport. We walked around the resort and saw people everywhere
engaging openly in sexual acts. People were naked or partially clothed. A
gentleman sitting next to me one night at dinner openly spoke with me about the
swapping experiences he and his wife frequently engaged in. I was 23 at the time
and didn’t quite know what to think. I did, however, sunbathe topless at the
pool all week. We also participated in the toga theme night at the dance club
at the resort. That night I got drunk enough to be talked into getting naked to
go on the three-story water slide that went directly through the dance club (it
was clear, of course, where it went through the club so that everyone could get
a show while they danced or talked). After that, we played some naked water
polo…that was the extent of my swinger interaction for 8 years. At the time, it
wasn’t for me. A big part of my reluctance was my religious upbringing.
Swinging just didn’t fit into my world view of what marriage and relationships
were supposed to be like. I also felt like Mr. X’s desire to swing meant there
was something wrong with me since it had to mean I wasn’t enough for him. This
idea actually had nothing to do with his desires, but it took me a long time to
realize that.
I’ll skip 8 years ahead to 2013. Mr. X and I were in a great
place in our relationship, married 10 years, parents to an adorable 1-year-old, having more sex than we ever had before, and over all of the relationship hurdles life had thrown at us. Still, swinging
was Mr. X’s greatest fantasy. I knew it wasn’t ever going to go away. Over the
years he kept telling me that even more than his desire to have sex with other
women, he wanted to see me fuck another man, to please and be pleased by
someone else. This idea turned him on so much. All I would have to do was
breathe the word “swinger”, and Mr. X would be hard as a rock and ready to go.
Mr. X and I were separated for 6 months that year for work again. The
long-distance phone calls and daily g-chatting gave us a long time to talk
about the issue. I finally came up with a compromise, something that he would
do in exchange for me giving swinging a shot. He happily agreed.
About a month before he was scheduled to return home, we
decided to sign up on a swinger website. Like many dating websites, you create
a profile with your basic information, what you’re into, and what you’re
looking for, pictures, etc. We started by posting some pictures of me in
lingerie that I’d sent to him over the months of our time apart. We blacked out
my eyes in them so that I wasn’t immediately identifiable, as most people do.
You can also post additional pictures that you grant people access to on a
case-by-case basis. In that album we showed our faces. We also posted a few
pictures of me topless and one normal photo of the two of us together before he
left. I wasn’t expecting the response we received right away. This site keeps
track of your recent profile views, which I love. I expected that the only
people we would talk to would be those we contacted first. I didn’t think we’d
get the flood of messages from people we did in the beginning and continue to
receive on a regular basis. I believe within a month our profile had more than
2000 recent views. At the end of his time away, we met up for a week of
vacation in Europe, which was amazing. We took advantage of staying in a fancy
hotel at the end of our trip and had an erotic photography session so that we
would have some new pictures for the swinger site…though I should also mention
that the sex after 6 months apart and months of talking about swinging was
incredible. The first night I was extremely giggly drunk. We broke out some
bondage tape so that he could restrain my wrists while he went down on me and
then fucked me senseless. We had to apologize to the friends we were staying
with at the time for all of the noise.
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