Monday, November 17, 2014

Unfinished…in more ways than one

I am ridiculously late in posting this unfinished entry from June 7, 2014

Hello again readers. It’s time for another entry. We had a couple of swinger encounters during the month of May. We attended an Alice in Wonderland themed party toward the beginning of the month. I was disappointed that I didn’t have more costume choices, being 7 months pregnant. It seems there are very few costumes available out there for pregnant woman. The ones I found were more like witches, fairies, pregnant nuns, etc. I really wanted to go as the Cheshire cat in a tight suit and sexy heels; I found an outfit on Yandy that was adorable…perhaps another year.  I believe the party company has decided to make Alice in Wonderland an annual event. I can’t wait to plan my costume next year. For this year I ended up buying a larger costume than I would normally wear and had it altered so that it was tight in the places it needed to be and still accommodated my growing belly.



Prior to the party, Mr. X and I had a discussion about swinging during the rest of my pregnancy. I told him that I didn’t want to be with anyone else new until after the baby, and definitely not anyone who doesn’t have kids/been with a pregnant woman before. Per usual, Mr. X did not pay attention to my request and messaged back and forth with a few couples who contacted us after seeing our RSVP to the event. He talked with one couple quite a bit. They are new to the lifestyle and have a few kids. Even though Mr. X told them I am pregnant, they were still interested and requested that we meet ahead of time via webcam so they could see that Mr. X and I are real. This was the first time we’ve had such a request. A couple of days before the party we met online on one of the lifestyle websites and tried to use the webcam feature through the site. It didn’t work very well. We ended up seeing each other but not hearing anything, so we still had to type our conversation…

I never finished writing the entry above. I will summarize, as I don’t remember too many of the details all of these months later. The couple we met on webcam before the party, I’ll call Mr. and Mrs. Webcam. We did meet them at the party. They were more attractive in person than I originally thought. While I had been less than thrilled at the idea of new people at that time, I hit it off with Mr. Webcam pretty quickly. He was a decent kisser and really sweet. He made a point to tell me several times that he was attracted to me, despite the pregnancy and also because of it. He made me feel really comfortable…until later. I actually received compliments and congratulations from quite a few couples at the party. We ended up during the later part of the evening in a play room with Mr. and Mrs. Webcam. Mr. X and Mrs. Webcam had no problems. They were off and running quickly. I felt a weird combination of self-conscious but sexy in the teddy I was wearing. 

Once Mr. Webcam removed it and we were standing there kissing, I looked down to see Mrs. Webcam with her phone poised to snap a photo of us. I hadn’t thought much before that moment about how I would feel if other people took pictures of us. At that moment, I asked her to stop. Honestly, if I hadn’t been pregnant, I probably would have been ok with it as long as she would have shared the pictures later.

Foreplay ensued. I went down on Mr. H, and then he went down on me. Then Mr. H tried to fuck me and was not able to. Any remaining self-confidence I had completely deflated. Of course I blamed myself. Mr. X and Mrs. Webcam seemed to have a great time. Mr. Webcam felt really bad that he wasn’t able to do what he wanted to, so he went back to going down on me. We parted that night as friends and said we hoped to get together another time to try again.


A couple of weeks after the party, we were invited to a meet and greet dinner that Mrs. Webcam hosted. We met at a sushi restaurant and had a very pleasant evening. We met several couples we’d never seen before, though at least one other couple had flirted with us on one of the sites before. One couple there even showed us sketches of their 1100 square foot sex dungeon in their basement…interesting crowd. After dinner, the group broke up and parted ways. We followed Mr. and Mrs. Webcam back to their house to give things another shot. Mr. Webcam said he thought things might go better for him if we were in separate rooms, as he thought maybe Mrs. Webcam’s moans and other noises were giving him performance problems. They apparently had only been with one other couple, and he had struggled with them as well and eventually just let his wife play alone with that husband. Inside, we started in their bedroom. After a little while, Mrs. Webcam and Mr. X left the room to try to help Mr. Webcam. Unfortunately it did not work. He still wasn’t able to fuck me, but licked and sucked pussy like there was no tomorrow. He was a sweet man and eager to please. I just wish I could have helped him…and fucked him. I don’t know if they will decide to stay in the lifestyle or if he might have more success with someone else…perhaps my very visible pregnancy was a factor or perhaps not. Either way, I’d like to remain friends with them.